Love is beautiful, but love alone will not pay your bills. And as much as I believe in love and marriage, I also believe every woman should be financially wise. One of the biggest mistakes you can make as a woman is getting so carried away by love that you forget to protect your financial … Read more
One of the best things you can do for yourself as a woman is to develop healthy self-esteem. Honestly, how you see yourself affects everything in your life. It affects the relationships you enter, the friendships you keep, the opportunities you pursue, and even what you let people get away with. A woman with high … Read more
One of the best things you can do for your peace of mind is to stop assuming everything is about you. And I say this as someone whose brain can turn a two-word text into a full investigation. “Okay.” Okay… what? Why the full stop? Did I say something wrong? We cannot live like this. … Read more
We usually assume the hardest affair to end is the one with the hottest sex. You know, the kind with intense chemistry that makes two grown adults forget that actions have consequences. I don’t think passion alone makes an affair difficult to leave. Passion can burn hot today and become cold ash tomorrow. Let’s look … Read more
When people talk about what a man can lose by cheating, the obvious answer is usually: His wife. And yes, you can lose your wife. She may file for divorce and decide that cheating is one thing she cannot forgive. What if she forgives you? What if you both decide to work on the marriage … Read more
”Every cheater eventually gets caught.” Huh. I wish that were true. Some people cheat for years without leaving any clear evidence behind. You may feel that something is wrong, but you cannot prove it. And when you ask questions, they make you feel like you are imagining things because you have nothing solid to show. … Read more
Some affairs shock you; others make you ask, “But how did you even allow yourself to go there?” Cheating with your wife’s best friend belongs in the second category. Because out of everybody in this big, beautiful world, you chose the woman who knows your wife’s deepest secrets, has eaten in your home, celebrated your … Read more
You know how people say, “Don’t judge a book by its cover”? Beautiful advice. Unfortunately, human beings have been ignoring it since the beginning of time. Before someone even opens their mouth, we’ve already picked up little details about them. And women definitely notice these things about men. Of course, none of these things tell … Read more
The person making your life harder isn’t always your ex, your boss, your parents, or your enemies Sometimes, it’s you. And I don’t say that to be mean. I’ve made dumb decisions too. We all have. Being intelligent doesn’t make you immune to self-sabotage. You can have degrees, run a business, give everybody fantastic advice, … Read more
One of the saddest things in life is not failure. It’s never finding out what you could have become. And the scary thing about wasting your potential is that it doesn’t always look like wasting your life. You can be responsible, go to work, pay your bills, take care of your family, do everything expected … Read more