A man can be a good husband, kind, responsible, present, and faithful, and still not be in love with his wife. These two things are not mutually exclusive, and that is exactly what makes this particular pain so hard to explain to people, because from the outside, everything looks fine. He’s not hitting her or … Read more

There is a man who will tell you he loves you every day and mean it completely, and still never marry you. Men tell us who they are, not always with their actions, sometimes with their words.  Words that sound like honesty or emotional depth, but if you listen carefully, are a polite way of … Read more

What’s a marriage without affection? I’ll tell you what it is. It’s two people sharing a surname, a bed, a Netflix password, and absolutely nothing else. It’s functional and civilised. It might even look fine from the outside, you know, the family photos are cute, the anniversary posts are sweet, and everybody at church thinks … Read more

If you ask most women what men find sexy, the answers are predictable: lingerie, perfect body (God knows what that is), flawless skin, flawless makeup, etc. And yes, those things can help. But in real life and with real men, the things that get their attention are so simple and random, you’ll almost feel offended, … Read more

Cheating men may change their routines, but their words are very predictable. Today, I’ll be sharing certain phrases that men use when they are cheating.  These phrases are lies packaged in a way that makes you question yourself instead of questioning him. Here are 7 of them:  7 Things Men Say When They’re Cheating 1. … Read more

Just because you are married to a man doesn’t mean you know him. Marriage gives you access and proximity, but it does not automatically give you understanding. How well you pay attention is what determines if you know someone, not just how long you’ve known them. You can sleep beside a man every night and … Read more

Affairs are terrible! They are one of the leading causes of divorce everywhere in the world, and it’s why every relationship blog you read writes about infidelity so much, and understandably so.  Betrayals hurt, and they deserve the buzz, but there’s another phenomenon, subtle but dangerous, going on in so many marriages that doesn’t get … Read more

Marriage is beautiful, but it’s not always sweet. Even in a good marriage, you’ll have moments where you both annoy each other. Two imperfect people living together will naturally clash sometimes. That’s the reality of marriage and it doesn’t mean your marriage is in trouble.  However, normal marital stress and being married to a man … Read more

Some women don’t want anything serious, so they don’t care if a guy is wasting their time or not. If that’s you, please don’t bother reading this article. But if you are tired of investing months or years into men who have no intention of building a future with you, then keep reading. Your time … Read more