One of the strangest things about infidelity is how a man can suddenly become an excellent communicator with the wrong woman. At home, his wife asks, “What’s wrong?” “Nothing.” “Are you okay?” “I’m fine.” Case closed. But give this same man a mistress, and suddenly, he realizes he can be emotionally vulnerable. He’s talking about … Read more
If you are a child of God who has a relationship with Him, and not only that, you acknowledge Him in all your ways, you should know that God cares about you and won’t let you enter into a ditch romantically. The problem is just that when we are in love, we tend to ignore … Read more
When you see a man crying, society is likely to label him weak. But no, a weak man is not one who cries. A weak man is not one who is gentle, soft-spoken, emotional, affectionate, or expressive. In fact, I think many of us have misunderstood strength in men for too long. We call a … Read more
Nothing happens randomly. Even a man who cheated because an opportunity presented itself still made a choice when that opportunity arrived. The opportunity didn’t cheat. He did. And before he did, something changed. Something that, looking back, was always visible to the woman paying attention. So, before a man cheats, some things always happen. 6 … Read more
A man can be a good husband, kind, responsible, present, and faithful, and still not be in love with his wife. These two things are not mutually exclusive, and that is exactly what makes this particular pain so hard to explain to people, because from the outside, everything looks fine. He’s not hitting her or … Read more
There is a man who will tell you he loves you every day and mean it completely, and still never marry you. Men tell us who they are, not always with their actions, sometimes with their words. Words that sound like honesty or emotional depth, but if you listen carefully, are a polite way of … Read more
What’s a marriage without affection? I’ll tell you what it is. It’s two people sharing a surname, a bed, a Netflix password, and absolutely nothing else. It’s functional and civilised. It might even look fine from the outside, you know, the family photos are cute, the anniversary posts are sweet, and everybody at church thinks … Read more
If you ask most women what men find sexy, the answers are predictable: lingerie, perfect body (God knows what that is), flawless skin, flawless makeup, etc. And yes, those things can help. But in real life and with real men, the things that get their attention are so simple and random, you’ll almost feel offended, … Read more
Cheating men may change their routines, but their words are very predictable. Today, I’ll be sharing certain phrases that men use when they are cheating. These phrases are lies packaged in a way that makes you question yourself instead of questioning him. Here are 7 of them: 7 Things Men Say When They’re Cheating 1. … Read more
Just because you are married to a man doesn’t mean you know him. Marriage gives you access and proximity, but it does not automatically give you understanding. How well you pay attention is what determines if you know someone, not just how long you’ve known them. You can sleep beside a man every night and … Read more